Posted by: Diane | December 7, 2012

Day 7…Walk Your Talk

Day 7

Advent calendar picture 7

When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”  John 8.12

God loves us so much He sent His only Son to be our Saviour from the darkness of sin and give us the light of eternal life.  The candle’s flame reminds us of the light of faith that the Holy Spirit keeps alive in our hearts.

PRAYER: Holy Spirit, help us to let our light of faith shine brightly, so that others may see God’s love and be brought closer to Christ. Amen.


My friend, Lindsay, has been cutting hair for a long time. She’s had three children since her early days of hairdressing but she still cuts clients’ hair in her basement “salon,” in between bus driving and mothering responsibilities. Hannah is Lindsay’s oldest daughter and for the past few years, whenever I’ve come to get a haircut, Hannah has always wiggled  her way down to the basement so that she can talk with me. We get along well and Hannah loves to talk about her life – school, friends, homework and family. I’ve had the privilege of watching her grow up and she is a beautiful young girl.

After a recent conversation, Hannah quietly began to emulate her mom’s hairdressing skills. I watched with fascination as she confidently washed, dried and put foils in her doll’s hair. Lindsay told me that she never took Hannah aside and taught her how to do all the hairdressing procedures. Instead, Hannah just watched and learned.

Lindsay’s skills were caught, not taught – the strategic way that Hannah combed her fingers through her doll’s hair as she rinsed the shampoo, the soothing head massage she gave that made her “client” relax, the subtle ways she lifted her doll’s hair to blow dry – everything that Lindsay has modelled, Hannah has copied.

Hannah  - washing hairHannah - drying and styling hair

What is lived out infront of us is more powerful than what it is told to us. We need both but actions really do speak louder than words.  I think it was Emerson who once said, “What you do speaks so loudly, I can hardly hear what you’re saying.”

Children and teenagers watch adults with an eagle eye. They detect phoniness and insincerity quickly and they react to it. Hypocrisy confuses. Words are weak when actions affirm. Truth surfaces, one way or another.

Francis Bacon once said, “He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other. 

Ultimately, it’s the example that prevails.

Brothers, join in imitating me, and keep your eyes on those who walk according to the example you have in us. 
Philippians 3. 17



  1. Yes, we are the examples for little ones to model.. Reflections in the mirror. Character traits are caught and not only taught. And good teaching is always by example and with opportunities for practice. Loved the example of Little Lindsay!

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