Posted by: Diane | April 8, 2014

Is God a Dream Giver?

I was recently asked, “What’s your dream house look like?”

I quickly responded with, “I don’t dream about houses.”

I wasn’t trying to be rude or a poor conversationalist but it’s true — I don’t think about dream holidays or houses. Having said that, I recently heard a story that touched my heart . . . and it’s about someone’s dream.

Four years ago, I was at a crossroad in my life — whether to quit teaching and pursue writing full time. As I struggled with this decision, I read many books about passion, vision and risk:

Holy Discontent – Fueling the Fire that Ignites Personal Vision, by Bill Hybels

Take the Risk – Learning to Identify, Choose and Live with Acceptable Risk, by Ben Carson

Embracing Your Second Calling – Find Passion and Purpose For the Rest of Your Life, by Dale Hanson Bourke

Chasing Daylight – Seize the Power of Every Moment, by Erwin McManus

Soul Cravings, by Erwin McManus

. . . to name a few.

A friend suggested that I also read The Dream Giver – Following your God-Given Destiny, by Bruce Wilkinson. This modern-day parable tells the story of Ordinary, who dares to leave the Land of Familiar to pursue his Big Dream.

I wasn’t too keen on reading this book because I hadn’t thought of God as a dream giver but the book was short and my friend wanted to discuss the author’s ideas with me — so I read it . . .and liked it.

One night, as my husband and I were getting ready for bed, I summarized the contents of the book and shared all my lofty dreams about becoming an author. Then I turned to him and asked, “What’s your dream, Chris?

I was overwhelmed by his heart-felt response and I journaled about it, long after Chris had fallen asleep.

June 25. 2010 journal entry.


Chris' dream


Chris’ dream was to be a role model for our grandson, Phoenie. He wanted to “be with Phoenie and teach him things.”

Fast forward to April, 2014.

Our daughter texted Chris a few days ago and this is what she wrote.

“Phoenie just told me that you’re his role model because you’re a great man.

Makes me tear up every time I think about it.

A simple but profound dream fulfilled. 


Phoenie and Papak


Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lordand who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither—whatever they do prospers.   Psalm 1.1-3 NIV


  1. Writing through my tears, I can just see my Mom rejoicing in heaven!!

    • I know . . . what a precious moment. Chris has been smiling every since he got the text!

  2. Love this post. YES! God is a dream giver- all the desires of my heart that are in keeping with His will have been provided to me. Sometimes it’s not what I wanted or expected but the end result is the dream I really needed. I’ve experienced pain & heartache to have these dreams realized, but the result is sweet and more life fulfilling than I could have known. To be loved and feel loved first by my Saviour, who has been filling a long ache in my heart and also, with a clean heart, by my husband. My dream has always been “to make a difference” and now I understand what that dream means. I am blessed!

    p.s. I do have a dream house too, btw, it’s got a big wrap around porch for morning coffee chats and reflection and a glass of wine at the end of the day. It definitely overlooks water 🙂


    • What a joy to watch you live your dream, my friend!
      Btw…I can totally see you sitting on your wrap around porch, enjoying coffee and conversation!

      We have the deck, overlooking the water so come on over!

      • Let’s DO THAT!!! Pick a date.
        Also- wow, absolutely love Chris’ dream (come true). And thanks for all the cool book references. Gonna chk them out 🙂

  3. Great books. I really appreciated working my way through the questions that Ben Carson provides in his book, Take the Risk.
    And yes, let’s get a date to watch Lake Simcoe thaw!

  4. A greater award than the one he received last night!

  5. Sweet dreams…indeed!

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